Forgiveness is about more than leaving things behind, it’s also about looking at the person for who he or she is, and accepting that person as flawed and human. In human life, we encounter people who are simply acting on a whim or desires or, sometimes they plot to bring about ill – will to us or many people. These individuals are being taken advantage of by the devil, and we must use God to forgive them when we recognize them as human weaklings.
There is more strength shown in forgiving someone as a pitiful being, using dark forces against us, than it is to hold grudges and be willfully spiteful. God wants us to move on to healthy, more fulfilled lives. He doesn’t want us to hold on to the past, especially if it brings us down.
Use God as force of goodwill in your lives, and you will find it easier to forgive those who use the devil as a means of trying to destroy you.
A Life of Oblivion 